I had to dig deep for this one as it's not been a year that spoke love, personally or globally. I lost contact with loved ones this year due to their disapproval of my views on politics and life choices, I'm in danger of losing my home and community due to things beyond my control, and the news from all around the planet is utterly dire.
How do we Speak Love when our hearts are tired and our optimism eroded away? How do we even begin to believe we can make a difference when we are so few; a scattered handful of bloggers and peace lovers?
And then I saw him on a meme, the most ridiculous of creatures - a lone frog standing down a row of men with riot gear and guns. It was absurd, ludicrous, and a bit horrifying when you watched him being pepper-sprayed. I mean, seriously, an inflatable frog?
But then, the very next day, there were three more frogs! And then a panda, several cartoon characters and a unicorn. Over the next days the menagerie grew until, finally, MORE
frogs in a completely different city, dancing with Baby Shark and a T
rex!
I was curious... who was this masque'd amphibian? I found him being interviewed about his reasons. It's worth listening to, but if you want the quick route, I've quoted Seth Todd, the Portland protest frog, below.
"We are humans and we're not supposed to be treating other people unfairly just because we have the power to do so."
Oh my dear frog, how beautiful your words were to my tired heart. You summed up everything Peace stands for: not to treat others unfairly simply because we have the power to do so.
And you reminded me of a deeper truth, that speaking love can be scary and even dangerous, because at its core speaking love means standing up to that which is cruel, that which is unfair, that which hurts or harms the innocent or vulnerable.
There are more ways to speak love than merely say words out loud; you can write love, mime love, dance or sing love, paint it into a picture or gift it in a smile and a hug.
Or just maybe, you'll show your compassion for others by dressing up as a frog. After all, it was frogs who first taught me how wonderful things can be when we all stand together.
Win or lose, sink or swim One thing is certain, we'll never give in Side by side, hand in hand We all stand together
Play the game, fight the fight But what's the point on a beautiful night? Arm in arm, hand in hand We all stand together
Love Keeping us warm in the night la la la la love Walk in the light You'll get it right!
For two decades (how did the time go by so fast?) I've taken part in Blogblast for Peace, every November. I've watched it continue to grow, steadily spiralled outwards as we draw, write and create in the name of Peace. But this year I'm turning around and following the spiral back to the centre.
It's time to turn.
Because no matter how much of a difference we might make in fighting for world peace, there is no greater battle, nothing ever more important or courageous, than ensuring your own personal peace. Your well-being has to come first.
Your mental and emotional health,
your sense of spiritual or ethical integrity,
your self-respect,
your personal sovereignty,
your inner peace.
Because when there is no peace within... there can be no peace without.
As wonderful as it is, to belong to a large group all battling for positive change, I'm also seeing a lot of burn out. People who are saying they feel exhausted; long past running on empty. So this season of Peace, I'm asking you to turn the spiral inwards. I want you to check your inner core; is it steady? Is it calm? Is it a sanctuary? Are your boundaries clearly marked and are you brave enough to hold them firm? Because it takes tremendous courage to stand up for yourself whilst still staying centred in peace and love.
The hardest thing to do is to love yourself and treat yourself with
kindness, because the world will fight you on that. Our society prefers
people who are obedient to others. It ridicules those who choose to put
themselves first. But the boss who implies you are lazy or not pulling
your weight if you ask for sick leave... will he be there for you when
your health collapses? The "friend" who calls you selfish or unkind for
refusing to constantly help... will they be there for you when you
collapse from exhaustion?
It's not your duty to take care of everyone on the planet as well as fighting for Peace and the planet itself. That burden is too great; no-one can carry that much. You will burn out.
For two decades we have all cried "NO
MORE" for world peace; now we must do it for our selves. No more giving
without receiving back. No more draining yourself dry in the hope that
somehow, some day, all that sacrifice will be appreciated and
recognised. No more giving parts of your self away. No more
self-destruction and lack of inner peace.
You can be amazing
You can turn a phrase into a weapon or a drug
You can be the outcast
Or be the backlash of somebody's lack of love
Or you can start speaking up ...
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
This is my tenth anniversary of taking part in Blog for Peace. Ten amazing years of creating a global community all focussed on one topic - peace. We are huge, on every continent including Antarctica, but have we made a difference?
That has bothered me lately, as I look at the chaos on media news. If so many people worldwide want peace, why are we still so far from our goal? It took some arguments on Facebook, an ancient maxim and a song to make me realise what I'd been overlooking: that we need to THINK for peace.
The arguments came about due to my friends being a very varied bunch of people. I've learnt so much from them, especially the ones whose politics, culture or religions are very different from my own. I'm ok with differences, but there are many who aren't ok. I have friends who openly fear "those people" who are also my friends. Worst of all... because they fear each other, they begin to resent or even hate each other. And that's when I remembered that ancient Roman maxim: DIVIDE AND RULE.
It's a very simple technique that was used in warfare and is now used in business and political strategy. Here's the basics of how it works:
create or encourage divisions among others to prevent alliances that could challenge the balance of power
foster distrust and enmity
encourage meaningless expenditures that reduce the capability for others to rebel
...and those last words triggered the memory of a song: "Work For Peace" by Gil Scott-Heron.
The Military and the Monetary,
get together whenever they think its necessary,
they are determined to keep the citizens secondary,
they make so many decisions that are arbitrary. The only thing wrong with Peace, is that you can't make no money from it.
There it was - my missing link. World powers and big business do not want peace because there is no money to be made from it. So they talk a lot of words about peace, but they foster the old maxim of divide and rule.
How many news items have you seen this year where the message was that the other side is not to be trusted? How many internet sites have sent you information on why you should fear people who are different to you? How many times has the military and the monetary tried to force us apart?
I watched a TV movie a few months back. It was a sci-fi thing about aliens invading the planet. Young soldiers were given special goggles through which they could see these "invisible aliens" in order to hunt them down and kill them. But one young man loses his goggles and realises that they're actually killing human beings. The battle isn't about aliens, it's about the government wanting to cull over population. There was no enemy; no alien invasion. Only divide and rule.
What if this were the truth right now? What if there were only a handful of genuine "bad guys" and those allowed to flourish in order to keep us all so afraid we toed the line and obeyed all the rules? What if we stopped thinking for ourselves and let THEM think for us...
Is it that far fetched? I don't know. All I know for certain is that my Facebook wall is made up of THEM. My friends are black, white, Asian and Native American. They are Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Atheist, Hindu and Pagan. I have witches chatting to church-going good folk on my Facebook wall. I have a Kosher vegetarian and a Halal vegetarian. I have an atheist vegan and a meat-eating Hindu. I have politically Left friends wanting the world to be a better place... I have politically Right friends who want the same.
They may have different things they believe and ways of living, but all of them want the same basic things: a decent salary, a nice home, safety for their families, healthy food, clean water and a better world for their children.
THEY. ALL. WANT. THE. SAME. THINGS.
Let that sink in for a moment, please and then... THINK.
Think before you allow random (and often fake) news to fill you with fear.
Think before you allow others to tell you who to hate.
Trust your intuition or trust in your God.
Keep calm and think for yourself.
THINK.
I based that design on a British World War II poster made to help people cope with the ongoing stress and fear of war. The message is just as important now as it was then. Keep calm and carry on. We absolutely cannot achieve peace by becoming angry or fearful of each other. We have to find ways to communicate, to share our similarities as we balance our differences.
I recently read an excellent post by Jeff Gregory about hate. I tend to defend the underdog and speak out about things I feel are wrong. A lot of people think that means I hate A or B, but it's not that simple. I do hate injustice and cruelty, but I can still pity the person doing the "act of evil" because so often it is the broken who then go on to break others. As you Jeff says in his post - hate isn't the answer. We need to find more ways to say "no, I don't want this" without making it a word used while carrying weapons and torches. This planet has seen far too many tragedies based on the hate of mass hysteria.
I've come up against this a lot with the recent fear/hate between political parties and against specific religions. Personally, I don't follow either Left or Right in politics (I'm Green first )and I see religions as the ways humanity experience and love creation/creator. I really don't think God cares how we express that love, only that we love. I don't think there is a single Way to God; each path is unique to each person. but sadly, there are two religions that have a history of using extreme force in order to convert others to a single "way": Christianity and Islam.
I have had to defend the rights of my Muslim friends a lot recently, which has led to some people thinking I'm anti-Christianity. Not so! I am depressed and afraid of the levels of hate in BOTH radical versions of these two religions. Yet neither religion was created by a man proposing using cruelty and fear to convert followers...
So how did it all go so wrong and how can we ensure it does not continue into our future?
It has to begin with letting go of hate and that means facing our fears, because most of the time hate is the way we protect ourselves from things we fear. We fear the different and unknown and we fear things that have hurt us in the past or that we worry will hurt us in the future. Fear is a primal instinct of survival, but it has limitations. It drains your energy and strips away your ability to think clearly. This is why so many brainwashing techniques use tiredness and fear, because you lose all ability to think for yourself. You become a puppet.
And the only way you can ever battle fear is through Love - the type of love that walks with tolerance, understanding and compassion.
Thank you, Jeff, for reminding me of that simple fact. It's so easy to lose sight of what really matters when you're frustrated and scared for the future. I'd like to repay you with a video by a favourite group of mine who say it beautifully in this song.
It's a month before Blog for Peace, so I'm setting the mood with an old song that has been haunting me lately.
"Work For Peace" by Gil Scott-Heron
Americans no longer fight to keep their shores safe,
Just to keep the jobs going in the arms-making workplace.
Then they pretend to be gripped by some sort of political reflex,
But all they're doing is paying dues to the Military Industrial Complex.
The Military and the Monetary,
get together whenever they think its necessary,
They turn our brothers and sisters into mercenaries,
they are turning the planet into a cemetery.
The Military and the Monetary,
use the media as intermediaries,
they are determined to keep the citizens secondary,
they make so many decisions that are arbitrary.
The only thing wrong with Peace,
is that you can't make no money from it.
The Military and the Monetary,
they get together whenever they think its necessary,
they've turned our brothers and sisters into mercenaries,
they are turning the planet, into a cemetery.
Got to work for Peace,
Peace ain't coming this way.
We should not allow ourselves to be mislead,
by talk of entering a time of Peace,
Peace is not the absence of war,
it is the absence of the rules of war and the threats of war and the preparation for war.
So this is a song about tomorrow and about how tomorrow can be better.
If we all,
"Each one reach one, Each one try to teach one".
Nobody can do everything,
but everybody can do something,
everyone must play a part,
everyone got to go to work, Work for Peace.
I wrote my book to these songs, often repeated over and over for certain chapters or scenes. I don't want to add spoilers, but I think those who've read the book will guess enough if I add a few hints. ;)
First and foremost... this is Evelah's song. I found the theme for her existence the first time I watched this.
Did you know that the seeds of the gigantic redwood trees are tiny? Each seed is barely bigger than a match head. You could fit a potential forest into a tablespoon.
There's something miraculous about that fact; that something so minuscule has the potential to grow into one of the world's tallest trees. A good reminder to never underestimate the small or seemingly fragile.
Sometimes words can feel as small and insignificant as tiny seeds.
That is especially true this Blogblast for Peace, as we come to the final months of a year littered with humanity's failings; tragedies, disclosures, scandals and lies.
There's been disclosures of voting and election fraud in several countries.
Could you be, could you be squeaky clean
And smash any hope of democracy?
Pushed through laws and budget cuts that target the most defenceless: the disabled, elderly and poor...
Now what does that remind me of?
Feel the pain, talk about it, If you're a worried man then shout about it
Pollution, big business greed and deception, political avarice and the constant push for wars.
Open hearts, feel about it, Open minds, think about it
Everyone read about it, Everyone scream about it
It has been an exceptionally depressing year. One that has left many
feeling bitter, despairing or angry as hopes for a better future
vanished.
I spy tears in their eyes
They look to the skies
for some kind of divine intervention
How does hope rise above all that despair? How does peace stand firm when filled with bitterness or anger? The only way is through love, because love has no time to bother with being disappointed, hurt or angry.
When you're sowing the seeds of love
anything is possible
Just like a giant redwood tree, love soars above such trivialities.
Love understands that we all fall short along the way. None of us is perfect. Love remembers this and is willing to hold out a hand of comfort and sympathy. Love isn't a fool, but it understands the need for reconciliation, determination and persistence.
Love offers seemingly small gifts: patience, protection, empathy, fairplay; little words of encouragement and understanding. Such things may seem pointless and small, but small words in the hands of love are very powerful seeds.
Everyone read about it, read about it
We're sowing the seeds of love.
We are facing hard times on this planet. There's no use sugar-coating the
facts. Things are bad. And tough times need tough love; real Love.
And I believe in love power (open your eyes)
The kind of Love that stands with dignity and calm in the storms, like a redwood tree.
We're sowing the seeds of love
Love offers protection to the helpless, compassion to the weak and a voice to those who cannot speak for themselves. Love persists and quietly insists on being taken seriously. Love keeps standing up, taking part and speaking out.
And most important of all, regardless of religion, nationality or political affiliation... we hold onto that tough love and we rise above the masses like a forest of redwood trees.
High time we made a stand
And shook up the views of the common man
We have to be leaders rather than followers. Way showers. Light keepers in the dark.
As Gandhi put it: "First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win."
Well... I've been through the ignored and laughed at. That means I've only got one more stage to get through. I think I can manage that. ;-)
And I believe in love power (open your eyes)
We're sowing the seeds of love
Sowing the seeds, An end to need, And the politics of greed
I thought I'd put up a song for the day. Everyone seems to be putting up Dougie MacLean singing Caledonia. So I went with something different. One of my favourite musicians, who also happens to be a YES campaigner - Eddie Reader. Singing a slightly different version of one of my all time favourite songs by Fairground Attraction - Perfect.